The Hero In My Life

Friday, July 26, 2013 / 9:39 AM

Ups and Downs.

There's always ups and downs in everybody's life but the question is will there be anyone who would celebrate your joys with you or share the pain you're going through together? At one point in anyone's life, there's that certain person who goes through thick and thin with you. Be it your girlfriend, your best friend or your family. I have that friend too. Actually, I had that friend. Whenever I had any problems, the first person that comes into my mind is that particular friend. We would be on the phone, sharing our happiness or our grieves for hours. From then on, she became my best friend. We continued this friendship for quite a while but things changed afterwards. I have no idea what happened, man. It's like she became a totally different person.

Me being myself, I like to joke around and play a fool. She suddenly stops 'entertaining' me and starts thinking that I'm annoying. Maybe I am. So I can't really blame her for that. But the real problems are that she has this attitude problem with me. She never talks nicely to me anymore. She's always angry at me. Scold here scold there. Even when I'm joking. We seldom talk to each other nowadays. Even if we did start a conversation, she always ends it with a 'K'. And now I would always notice her conversations with others. Wow, how I wished she would talk to me like that. LOL. WAIT. SOUNDS LIKE I'M IN LOVE WITH HER. HAHAAHA. Okay no. But really. This ain't working out. And the more serious problem is that we used to talk about my problems and joys, right ? But now she doesn't even care anymore. It's like whenever I tries to start a story, she just says' Sorry. I'm not interested.' And I have to listen to all her stories.

I mean, being someone's best friend, the least you could do is to listen to his/her stories even though it doesn't concern you or it's boring. I don't get it. Does it mean that I'm getting boring ? Well, I don't see how that's being a best friend to me. I always make an effort to listen to anyone's story no matter how boring it gets. I never go around saying, 'Hey dude. Shut up. I don't want to listen to your grandmother story.' Because I know that feeling sucks. SUCKS BIG TIME. It sucks not being able to turn to anyone when you need a listening ear. Especially when you had someone to talk to and now she thinks that you're boring and doesn't want to listen to your stories anymore.

Well, there's always two sides to every story. Probably, it had been my fault at the beginning that caused this misunderstanding to happen. Who knows. But whatever it is, I just hope we don't become enemy the next time we see each other.

Wednesday, July 10, 2013 / 6:20 AM

Life would be better if you choose to make it better.

This post was inspired by Ron's tweet. LOL. Lately, there's like so many emo people or things happen around me and I've been reading too much of Nick Vujicic so I've decided to write this post to motivate myself and people who are feeling down! (IF ANYONE EVEN READ MY BLOG).

I really don't get some people who always feel down. I mean, it's not wrong to get sad and emotional at some point of time but ALWAYS ?! SERIOUSLY ?! Haha. Disclaimer: I'm not aiming at anyone. I'm just talking about this as a GENERAL TOPIC. LOL. Anyway, being such a cheerful person myself, I may not understand the sadness and grief that everyone has. But the heading says it all. 'Life would be better if you choose to make it better.' Don't get all emotional and then start crying and start cutting and start slicing and then dicing. Okay lame. But still, your life ain't gonna be smooth all the way, son! There's always bound to be obstacles along the journey but are you going to just sit and then tweet about what happened and cry ? NO. NOOOO WAY. HELLLLL NOOOO. There's always something you can do to make it better. Obstacles aren't there to stop you. They are there to make you stronger and prepare you for even bigger things! Everything happens for a reason. I strongly believe in that. It's all about the mentality. Are you going to sit there and think about all the negative thoughts or are you going to think about the 1001 ways to solve the problem ?

However, people always say, 'There's nothing I can do.' BULLSHIT. BULLCRAP. BULLFAECES. I never believed that. If a man with no limbs can live such a happy life, why can't you ? That man, Nick, do face challenges but it's his mentality that made him so happy. IT'S ABOUT ALL YOUR THINKING. He used to go through depression but he decided that this can't go on and thus, changed his mindset and start doing things that he never thought would be possible. IF HE CAN, WHY CAN'T YOU? Look at things with a different perspective. There's so much more you can do. Yes you. To whoever's reading this post. You can achieve much more.
MUCH MORE THAN YOU IMAGINE.