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Friday, July 26, 2013 / 9:39 AM
Ups and Downs. There's always ups and downs in everybody's life but the question is will there be anyone who would celebrate your joys with you or share the pain you're going through together? At one point in anyone's life, there's that certain person who goes through thick and thin with you. Be it your girlfriend, your best friend or your family. I have that friend too. Actually, I had that friend. Whenever I had any problems, the first person that comes into my mind is that particular friend. We would be on the phone, sharing our happiness or our grieves for hours. From then on, she became my best friend. We continued this friendship for quite a while but things changed afterwards. I have no idea what happened, man. It's like she became a totally different person. Me being myself, I like to joke around and play a fool. She suddenly stops 'entertaining' me and starts thinking that I'm annoying. Maybe I am. So I can't really blame her for that. But the real problems are that she has this attitude problem with me. She never talks nicely to me anymore. She's always angry at me. Scold here scold there. Even when I'm joking. We seldom talk to each other nowadays. Even if we did start a conversation, she always ends it with a 'K'. And now I would always notice her conversations with others. Wow, how I wished she would talk to me like that. LOL. WAIT. SOUNDS LIKE I'M IN LOVE WITH HER. HAHAAHA. Okay no. But really. This ain't working out. And the more serious problem is that we used to talk about my problems and joys, right ? But now she doesn't even care anymore. It's like whenever I tries to start a story, she just says' Sorry. I'm not interested.' And I have to listen to all her stories. I mean, being someone's best friend, the least you could do is to listen to his/her stories even though it doesn't concern you or it's boring. I don't get it. Does it mean that I'm getting boring ? Well, I don't see how that's being a best friend to me. I always make an effort to listen to anyone's story no matter how boring it gets. I never go around saying, 'Hey dude. Shut up. I don't want to listen to your grandmother story.' Because I know that feeling sucks. SUCKS BIG TIME. It sucks not being able to turn to anyone when you need a listening ear. Especially when you had someone to talk to and now she thinks that you're boring and doesn't want to listen to your stories anymore. Well, there's always two sides to every story. Probably, it had been my fault at the beginning that caused this misunderstanding to happen. Who knows. But whatever it is, I just hope we don't become enemy the next time we see each other. |
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